Saturday 1 March 2008

珍惜

前几天当我听到一个好朋友的父亲去世时,我真的是很震惊。为什么一个人说去了就去了?她的父亲其实还很年轻,应该和我的父亲差不多。一个女孩子要面对父亲的骤然离去,那种感觉会是怎么样?我很想打电话安慰她,可是我却打不下手,因为我不知道要怎样安慰她。我弟那天有问我,如果有一天这种事情发生在我身上我是否能够去面对?
其实每当我看到新闻有这样的例子或者听到有朋友遇到这种情况时,我就会想起如果有一天我有这种遭遇时我会怎么办。也许你们会觉得我很奇怪,为什么无端端会时常在想这种事?其实我也不知道,也许我是老大吧,应该由我来面对,来承担。
当我年纪越来越大时,我就会越来越珍惜与父母在一起的日子,明白到他们的重要性。以前小时候就很想快点长大独立,离开父母。现在反而不想这样快离开他们,想好好的珍惜与他们在一起的日子。

15 comments:

li said...

unexpected that ah siang will ask u this q...ahhaa
btw, sorry to hear bout that

ling ying said...

kent keat, dun think too much oh!!!when u become so 多愁善感?haha

Likchun said...

hmm, really not like u, i oways tot u r cold blooded

Kent said...

ly: i'm not thinking too much.i think it is necessary for me to think about this.. cuz life is really unexpected..i must think bout this since i'm the eldest in my family....
lik: wat cold blooded.. i'm just 外冷内热. i'm the eldest in my family, so i hv to show my toughest side to everyone

Likchun said...

just becoz u r the eldest, u can become so 感性?hmm, then i think we can make u cry easily when we farwell u few months later, keke... evil plan 2

ling ying said...

he will cry?ohs....i cant imagine tat..

Kent said...

haha.. sorry/ i'm tough instead of sentimental.. so i wont cry...

Likchun said...

hu noes, get ready for tat...

Kent said...

lik: is this the first day u know me?? wanna to ask u do u ever c me cry since u know me from standard 1.. by the way, must exclude the fake cry in standard4-6..

li said...

actualy rite i aso think that he wun cry le....hahahaa

Likchun said...

li, as i said, "evil plan", we will plan it nicely haha, but actually rite, i got no confidence.
but u i m sure we r able to do it haha!

Kristen said...

I'm putting a bet that Kent Keat won't cry in front of u guys. Cry in his room or plane not consider.

But I hope u guys will make him cry, and he will eventually cry.

Putting a bet on sth I don't hope for? Really don't understand myself.

ling ying said...

cry...erm...kent keat, the most handsome moment of u mus b the moment u crying...lets show us ler, 真情流露的男人最帅了
ahahahaha....my fur all ask for independent! oopzz

Kent said...

wow.. u all so evil... wanna make me cry... actually i did cry in my life... but just hiding in my duvet..
shyan: u bet at the right side.. i will make u win ur bet... wahhaha
Lik: i think ur evil plan can make me feel touching only.. not enough to make me cry yet...so far only my parents and "someone" made me cry be4....

Likchun said...

shyan, high risk high gain, haha! and tis show how u trust our abilities...